9 Non-Threatening Leadership Strategies for Women (spoof)
Are some men so insecure that many women have to throttle back their power?
This is a funny book because it’s true. And it’s also more than a little painful that it is true.
How to Be Successful Without Hurting Men’s Feelings a new book from Sarah Cooper.
Are some men so insecure that many women have to throttle back their power? Unfortunately, yes. And here’s a great short book that pokes fun at the most tender of all things in this universe, the male ego.
”In this fast-paced business world, female leaders need to make sure they’re not perceived as pushy, aggressive or competent. One way to do that is to alter your leadership style to account for the (sometimes) fragile male ego.
Should men accept powerful women and not feel threatened by them? Yes. Is that asking too much? IS IT? Sorry I didn’t mean to get aggressive there. Anyhoo, here are 9 non-threatening leadership strategies for women.”
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